HOW TO LIVE A HAPPY AND SATISFIED LIFE

In each day that passes by, we stand by and witness how our lives are being lived without the full happiness and satisfaction we crave and need. Most people spend their time stressed out, worried and on a constant panic about what needs to be done for their futures, raising their children, wired up over work, school, along with everything else. Does this sound familiar? Well if it does, it is because so many people live with this style and pattern. When you can start living that fully happy and satisfied life?

The only way you can live a happy and satisfied life, is when you start doing things that make you happy and satisfied. Sure, it sounds easy, and can be easy if you just remember to make yourself one of your top priorities. Too many people neglect themselves, feeling that it would be selfish if they took any time out to focus on their own being. While it is good to take care of others and other important things going on in your life, it is mandatory that you never forget about yourself. Discover who you really are and what matters most to you. Living a great life does not just happen. It requires, planning and following those plans to a life that reflects who you truly are.

Most people avoid planning goals and dreams in their lives because they may have a fear of committing to it or failing. They feel that by officially writing it down, they would actually have to go through with pursuing it. This is where you need to rate the importance of your life missions. What is most important to you? Is it losing a certain amount of weight? Getting your degree? Spending more time with your spouse or children? Whatever the reason or reasons may be, just write all of them down. You may feel that making a mental note of your goals and dreams is enough, but you could very well be setting yourself up for disappointment and failure. By writing it down, you will become a visual witness of those goals. Try writing them in an organizer, with a little reminder written in each day.

Setting deadlines for these goals would be a great way to assure they will be accomplished. Avoid disappointment by setting realistic deadlines. For example, if you wanted to lose 10 pounds, do not give yourself a week to do so. You will only torture yourself and become depressed when the week is over and see that you did not come even close to losing the 10 pounds. In fact, you may give up losing weight altogether because of the failure you experienced, simply because your deadline was unrealistic. Take some time everyday to look over your goals and remind yourself of how important they really are to you. Ask yourself why they are important to you too. Knowing that something is important is not enough. You must know the reasons behind the importance of the dreams and goals you have, so that your mind can see it more clearly and understand exactly why it is so necessary to go through with your missions.

Excuses are demons you must learn to fight off if you wish to start living a happy and satisfied life. Most people claim to have many dreams, but say they just do not have the time to approach them. Stop making excuses! You are the only one who holds the power to make a real difference in your life. Sure, we all have busy lives with our careers and families, but nothing takes up 24 hours of your day. So if something is truly important to you, you will be sure to make the time to work on it. You can do this by replacing it with something less important. For example, if you claim you do not have the time to work on the other important goals in your life, perhaps it is time for you to start making close observations on the way you spend your time. If you spend several hours of the day working, studying, and then several hours taking care of house chores and family, what else are you doing with the rest of your day? If you spend a good portion watching television, then you need to cut back on that and use that time to begin and follow an exercise plan you have been thinking to focus on for a long time (or whatever goal it is you have).

Making yourself one of your first priorities is not selfish. It actually is obligatory to do so in order to succeed in the other subjects of your life. Without a happy and satisfied you, there will be no happy and satisfied life, because you will be stressed out and unhappy. You might be consciously ignoring your needs and desires, but your subconscious mind has not forgotten about you and will constantly remind you through stress, anger, sadness, insecurity and feelings of failure.

Start listening to yourself and becoming the best friend and supporter you need. No one is going to work on your happiness for you, so find the power and motivation stored up inside you, and use it to direct yourself into the path of true happiness and satisfaction. You can do anything you set your mind to, and once you have stopped and gotten in touch with yourself, you will learn and realize just how wonderful and capable you really are, and how you always have been. You will not only realize these things, but also begin loving who are more and more, which will not only lead you to achieving the things that make you most happy, but will guide you into a world of many new dreams come true.

35 REASONS I LOVE YOU

• I can be myself when I am with you.
  
• Your idea of romance is dim lights, soft music, and just the two of us.
  
• Because you make me feel like, like, like I have never felt before.
  
• I can tell you anything, and you won't be shocked.

• Your undying faith is what keeps the flame out of love alive
  
• You and me together, we can make magic.
  
• We're a perfect match.
  
• Thinking of you, fills me with a wonderful feeling.

• Your love gives me the feeling, that the best is still ahead.
  
• You never give up on me, and that's what keeps me going.
  
• You are simply irresistible
  
• I love you because you bring the best out of me.

• Your terrific sense of humor
  
• Every time I look at you, my heart misses a beat
  
• You're the one who holds the key to my heart
  
• You always say what I need to hear (You are perfect).
  
• You have taught me the true meaning of love.

• Love is, what you mean to me - and you mean everything.
  
• You are my theme for a dream.
  
• I have had the time of my life and I owe it all to you.
  
• When I look into your eyes, I can see your heart.
  
• Your love for me is a natural anti-depressant.

• I love to hear your voice.
  
• Your love has helped me to rediscover myself.
  
• Your love is an effective anti-dote to despair.
  
• I love to wake up with you by my side...It makes my days better.
  
• You always make me feel that you are by my side no matter what.

• I love that feeling of being secure when you wrap your arms around me.
  
• I love the way you keep your cool when I do something stupid.
  
• Just being with you feels like I can defy the whole world.
  
• You mean the world to me.
  
• I like your small gestures that speak volumes about how much you care.

• I love the way you treasure the gifts that I gave you.
  
• I love the way you patch up with me after a tumultuous fight.
  
• And, of-course, your intelligence, 'cause you were smart enough to fall in love with me ;-)

What Is Love?

"Love is that first feeling you feel before all the bad stuff gets in the way."

"When my grandmother got arthritis, she couldn’t bend over and paint her toenails anymore. So my grandfather does it for her all the time, even when his hands got arthritis too. That’s love."

"When someone loves you, the way they say your name is different. You know that your name is safe in their mouth."

"Love is when a girl puts on perfume and a boy puts on shaving cologne and they go out and smell each other."

"Love is when you go out to eat and give somebody most of your french fries without making them give you any of theirs."

"Love is when someone hurts you. And you get so mad but you don’t yell at them because you know it would hurt their feelings."

"Love is what makes you smile when you’re tired."

"Love is when my mommy makes coffee for my daddy and she takes a sip before giving it to him, to make sure the taste is OK."

"Love is what’s in the room with you at Christmas if you stop opening presents and listen."

"If you want to learn to love better, you should start with a friend who you hate."

"When you tell someone something bad about yourself and you’re scared they won’t love you anymore. But then you get surprised because not only do they still love you, they love you even more."

"There are two kinds of love: Our love and God’s love. But God makes both kinds of them."

"Love is when you tell a guy you like his shirt, then he wears it everyday."

"Love is like a little old woman and a little old man who are still friends even after they know each other so well."

"During my piano recital, I was on a stage and scared. I looked at all the people watching me and saw my daddy waving and smiling. He was the only one doing that. I wasn’t scared anymore."

"My mommy loves me more than anybody. You don’t see anyone else kissing me to sleep at night."

"Love is when mommy gives daddy the best piece of chicken."

"Love is when your puppy licks your face even after you left him alone all day."

"I let my big sister pick on me because my Mom says she only picks on me because she loves me. So I pick on my baby sister because I love her."

"Love cards like Valentine’s cards say stuff on them that we’d like to say ourselves, but we wouldn’t be caught dead saying."

"When you love somebody, your eyelashes go up and down and little stars come out of you"

"You really shouldn’t say ‘I love you’ unless you mean it. But if you mean it, you should say it a lot. People forget."

"God could have said magic words to make the nails fall off the cross, but He didn’t. That’s love."

Ku Mahu Kau Tahu

Di sudut termenung jauh
Mengenangkan nasib kita
Kita miliki separuh
Berbentuk hati cinta namanya


Walau kau jauh
Ku sentiasa menunggumu
Inginku imbas kembali memori
[ Lyrics from: http://www.lyricsmode.com/lyrics/h/hujan/ku_mahu_kau_tahu.html ]
Walau kau jauh
Ku berjanji kan terus tunggu
Dipisah lautan biru

Ku mahu kau tahu
Aku kan terus menunggu

Jaga benar gambarku dalam telefon bimbitmu
Jangan pernah sekali kau buang
Seperti cinta ini yang terbuku
Akan bersemi jua


Terus menunggu
Kita kan bersatu
Terus menunggu
Ku mahu kau tahu

Cinta Jarak Jauh

Cinta tidak mengenal tempat dan waktu, perasaan bisa tumbuh setiap saat. Dengan demikian, banyak pasangan yang berbeda jarak, sungai, gunung, laut, dan negara. Pasangan ini memiliki tantangan, kalau kepercayaan tidak kuat, bisa dipatahkan dengan mudah. Di sini ada beberapa tips untuk menghindarinya.

1. Komunikasi
Sekarang, semuanya adalah cara yang mudah, bahkan Anda memiliki tempat yang berbeda tetapi masih banyak alat komunikasi yang dapat digunakan, seperti telepon, chatting melalui internet dan lain-lain maka tidak ada alasan untuk tidak melakukan hal itu. Saran, jika Anda memiliki keraguan, distrustfulness, dan perasaan buruk, Anda harus memberitahu mereka untuk pasangan Anda. Jangan sembunyikan jalan!

2. Terkejut
Kejutan seringkali menjadi hal segar bagi pasangan, misalnya, Anda bisa mengirim bunga atau sesuatu yang seperti itu untuk mengisi kerinduan.

3. Membuat peraturan
Untuk menghindari kesalahpahaman, kalian berdua harus membuat peraturan. Sebagai contoh, berapa lama Anda harus memiliki pertemuan, Anda tetap berhubungan satu sama lain setiap hari, atau untuk bertemu pada hari khusus dll

4. Trust dan Patient
Ketika Anda berdua telah membuat komitmen untuk menjadi jarak jauh. Jadi kepercayaan sangat penting. Jika Anda tidak dapat melakukan itu, Anda tidak boleh mencobanya. Karena Anda harus lelah dan bosan dengan keraguan dan untruthfulness karena Anda tidak bisa menonton luar dirinya. Jika Anda memiliki masalah, biarkan Anda berbagi untuk menemukan solusi.

5. Untuk memprediksi pada berikutnya.
Hubungan yang memiliki tujuan, Anda harus lebih semangat untuk menjalankannya, jarak jauh harus memiliki komitmen kuat. Semoga beruntung.

Long Distance

There's only so many songs
That I can sing to pass the time
And I'm running out of things to do
To get you off my mind
Ooohh,no

All i have is this picture in a frame
That I hold close to see your face every day

With you is where I'd rather be
But we're stuck where we are
And it's so hard,you're so far
This long distance is killing me
I wish that you were here with me
But we're stuck where we are
And it's so hard,you're so far
This long distance is killing me

It's so hard,it's so hard
Where we are,where we are
You're so far,this long distance is killing me
It's so hard,it's so hard
Where we are,where we are
You're so far,this long distance is killing me

Now the minutes feel like hours
And the hours feel like days
While I'm away
You know right now I can't be home
But I'm coming home soon,coming home soon

All i have is this picture in a frame

I'm Gonna Miss You Sayang :'(

Cinta Dua Benua

Hari ini,genaplah 3 bulan hubungan aku dengannya.Aku berharap kita dapat bersama-sama dan kita minta doa dari Allah S.W.T supaya makbulkan doa untuk kebahagiaan kita.Selama aku bersamamu,aku sangat gembira disisimu.Aku sangat beruntung mendapat gadis yang ayu sepertimu.Kaulah segala-galanya untukku.Hanya kaulah yang kumiliki.Aku tidak mahu meninggalkan kau.Aku juga berharap kaulah wanita yang mampu membahagiakan dan menggembiraka hidup aku.Sayang,tidak lama lagi kita akan berpisah untuk 4 bulan.Bagi aku,4 bulan itu adalah tempoh yang agak lama.Mampukah aku hidup tanpa disisimu???Mampukah aku??Seperti aku tidak mahu melepaskan dirimu.Sayang,jika kau sudah berjauhan bersamaku,percayalah dengan kataku ini.Aku sentiasa menyayangimu dan mencintaimu.Kaulah permaisuri hidupku.Jangan sesekali lupa pada diriku kerna aku di sini sentiasa mengingatimu sampai bila-bila.Semoga kau berjaya menjalani latihan selama 4 bulan itu.Aku akan menunggumu di sini.Sayang, AKU CINTA PADAMU.

With Love:Hishamuddin Jamaludin@Hysharm(Isnin/28 Mac 2011) 4.14 pagi.

Aku Tetap Aku

Nama aku Hishamuddin B. Jamaludin. Orang nunggah aku Hysharm,Dynnz & Bobo(nama glamer aku di kolej)hehehe..Aku berasal dari Kuching sebenarnya,p aku lamak menetap di Daro,Mukah. I love my Kampung. Umur aku 21 tahun.Still bujang k and dah ada yang berpunyerrr...haahaha..Berzodiak Aquarius. Sukakan benda yang x penah dipolah. Hobi aku adalah suka bermain futsal,basketball,online,main games,melukis and berlagu(dalam jamban). Aku suka berkawan dengan semua orang di sekeliling. Sapa2 yang kenal dengan aku nang tauk la aku tok cam nie perangei. Nak adah jaik x juak..nak padah bagus x juak,sedang2 la..huhuhuh..Orang yang bernama Hishamuddin tok adalah orang yang ceria,lawak,friendly dengan orang & bait dengan orang. Akan tetapi,nya tok jenis yang sensitif & mudah menitiskan air mata. Nya tok juak jenis yang mudah panas baran tapi nya salu tahan dalam hati jak. Seperti lava dalam air. Nya tok susah mok nangga nya manas ka apa. Malas bah mok tunjuk dengan orang. Sigek aku tok la,aku suka nolong orang mun da masalah. Tapi mun aku ada masalah,aku x cita dengan orang pa masalah aku. Aku main simpan jak. Dalam erti kata,xmok membebankan masalah kita pada orang lain. Aku sayang dengan semua kawan2 aku yang sentiasa disisi aku,keluarga aku & orang yang paling aku sayang. I hope you know who I Love.Sekiranya aku pergi dari semua orang yang rapat dengan aku,always remember me k. Aku always ingat tak owg setiap saat kita masih bergelar sahabat. Aku juak mok mintak maaf dengan tak org semua sekiranya aku da molah kitak orang sakit hati or melukakan hati kitak org,aku mintak maaf k. Aku bukan insan yang sempurna. Aku insan yang lemah. Aku sayang tawk owg semua. Love You All. Smile Always & Be Happy Together. K la sampe ctok jak cta aku dengan tawk owg. Sigek jak perlu setiap manusia perlu ingat,Be Yourself!!!!Aku Hishamuddin B.Jamaludin berkata "Aku adalah aku. Tiada orang lain dapat mengganti aku. Tiada sapa yang dapat menjadi diriku. Percayalah wahai sahabat,menjadi diri sendiri lebih baik daripada menjadi diri orang lain".

+Luahan Hatiku+.27.3.2011(Ahad)

By:Hishamuddin Jamaludin

CINTA AKU HANYA PADAMU (Untuk Sang Kekasih)

Kaulah permaisuriku,

Kaulah permata hatiku,

Setiap waktu,

Aku sentiasa mengingatimu.

Ku sentiasa disisimu,

Setiap saat aku bersamamu,

Seakan -akan tidak akan ku lepaskan,

Hanya kau yang kumiliki.

Sayang,

Ku berharap padamu,

Ku berdoa pada Yang Esa,

Moga aku bisa hidup bersamamu.

Sayang,

Aku akan menjagamu,

Akan ku sayang padamu,

Kerna cintaku hanya padamu.

Puisi Daripada: Hishamuddin Jamaludin@Hysharm

Tarikh & Masa: 27 Mac 2011(Ahad) 5.22 a.m

+THE STORY ABOUT LOVE+

When it's love you give
(I'll be a man of good faith.)
Then in love you live.
(I'll make a stand. I won't break.)
I'll be the rock you can build on,
Be there when you're old,
To have and to hold.

When there's love inside
(I swear I'll always be strong.)
Then there's a reason why.
(I'll prove to you we belong.)
I'll be the wal that protects you
From the wind and the rain,
From the hurt and pain.

Let's make it all for one and all for love.
Let the one you hold be the one you want,
The one you need,
'Cause when it's all for one it's one for all.
When there's someone that should know
Then just let your feelings show
And make it all for one and all for love.

When it's love you make
(I'll be the fire in your night.)
Then it's love you take.
(I will defend, I will fight.)
I'll be there when you need me.
When honor's at stake,
This vow I will make:

That it's all for one and all for love.
Let the one be the one you want,
The one you need,
'Cause when it's all for one it's one for all.
When there's someone that should know
Then just let your feelings show
And make it all for one and all for love.

Don't lay our love to rest
'Cause we could stand up to you test.
We got everything and more than we had planned,
More than the rivers that run the land.
We've got it all in our hands.

Now it's all for one and all for love.
(It's all for love.)
Let the one you hold be the one you want,
The one you need,
'Cause when it's all for one it's one for all.
(It's one for all.)
When there's someone that should know
Then just let your feelings show.
When there's someone that you want,
When there's someone that you need
Let's make it all, all for one and all for love.